Updo With Flower Anyone Know An Updo I Can Do For My Hair? (pictures Included)?

Anyone know an updo i can do for my hair? (pictures included)? - updo with flower

I notice a night (family), visited 26, and I'm fairly high on the search for one that I do for my hair ... I know it's a little early to ask this, but I want to do in a practical way, is good to me:) tonight is a big deal, then I am ready to do updo.
Basically I'm looking for something different than a normal sandwich. My hair is very rough, and if the projections in order:) Maybe Integrated pinned up a flower or something else? or hairpins? and pictures are greately appreciated: do) and instructions for updo too.
my hair (pictures Arent all that great opportunity to show my hair, but just to give you an idea):
http://i38.tinypic.com/jrg1z5.jpg
http://i38.tinypic.com/aahts1.jpg
http://i38.tinypic.com/o70oyo.jpg

I searched and can not find updos: (Thank you very much!